Children are listening all the time, even when adults least expect it. Children notice the way you talk to yourself and others. Most of all, they notice the way you talk to them and about them. Model self-love for your children, and show compassion and caring in your interactions with children (and others) to nurture kindness and resilience in them.
We all know that a few kind words can change your entire outlook on a situation, but it can be a challenge to think of positive things to say in the moment. Fairfax County Department of Family Services compiled a list of expressions to use in various situations to help parents be encouraging to their children.
These affirmations will help spark ideas for different phrases you can use to show love, motivate children, provide support during a tough time, and boost their self-esteem.
Remember, children and teenagers are counting on their families, friends, and other caring adults to support them in good times and bad. Accept the Words Matter Challenge and start a lifelong habit.
Words to Encourage Children
I love you
You can do it
You are a good person
I am grateful for you
I am proud of you
You are special
That was a really good choice
Mistakes mean you are trying
You matter
You are an amazing person
Just be yourself
You are a creative thinker
Do your best
I trust you
It’s not your fault
You make a difference
You are one of a kind
You are brilliant
You have choices
You are worthy
You were right
It's okay to be scared (or sad)
It's your body
You have a voice
Love yourself
I see you are trying
I believe in you
How can we work together to fix this?
I am here to listen
You are safe
It will be okay
You are a great helper
What a great question/idea
Fairfax County is dedicated to the safety of children and to providing the appropriate supports to parents to keep families healthy. The Department of Family Services’ signature Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention campaign is focused on Building Stronger Families.
Strong families can provide safe and healthy childhoods and lead to creating a thriving community